Different obstacles in the form of mergers with a partner and the organization of dependent relationships may occur on the experience of intimacy. Or, on the contrary, because of the fear of being absorbed by a person, we remain isolated because of the inability to open our boundaries to another. Including intimacy can be perceived as a way of avoiding loneliness. Such a motivation is compensatory, then the need is not in closeness, but in finding a method that can help somehow overcome our loneliness.