Psychologists have found that all problems exist exclusively in our head. It is not necessary to be a beauty with model parameters to drive representatives of the opposite sex crazy. To find the man of your dreams, it is enough to follow four simple rules.
Release the situation
There is one interesting pattern — as soon as you let go of a particular situation in your life, it resolves itself. And love is no exception. Therefore, stop looking at every cute man for the one with whom you can spend your whole life. Learn to enjoy flirting and courtship, and as soon as you do, the man of your dreams will immediately appear on the horizon.
Clearly formulate your desires
Decide on a set of qualities that an ideal man should have. For some, it will be a sense of humour, generosity, and the ability to compromise in conflict situations. And someone loves men of athletic build and dreams that he can cook no worse than Jamie Oliver. Try to imagine your future partner as specifically as possible.
If you like a certain type of appearance, then it wouldn’t be shameful to put your favourite actor or performer on the screensaver of your phone. Visualize your dreams, more often imagine how you would like to be courted or where your ideal first date could take place. The more clearly you formulate your desires, the sooner the universe will respond to your request.
Work on yourself
Imagine what kind of woman might be interesting to the man of your dreams, and just become her. If you want your future husband to be a top manager of an oil company, while there’s not a single dress in your wardrobe, not to mention high-heeled shoes, then it is unlikely that a potential prince on a white horse, seeing you on the street, will see the woman of his dreams behind a girl in a sports hoodie and hastily pulled hair into a ponytail. Be objective: if you want to meet the perfect man, make sure that he cannot pass you by.
Start changing the space around you
Stop living like a hermit crab, get things that suggest the presence of a man in your life. For instance, buy a pair of men’s slippers and put them in the hallway — just in case. Or replace the narrow sofa with a full double bed. All this will help to create the right energy around you. Allow yourself to think that very soon, there will be a person in your life who will need all these things.